ajwa

you need to start caring for yourself more than you care about others. it’s not healthy. it’s draining and it’s exhausting trying to fix people when you could be fixing yourself

you don’t spend the same amount of energy on yourself the way you spend it on others. 

so why now? why do you feel like you should give your all for someone who would never do the same for you? 

why even bother trying to please them when they hardly ever please you? 

don’t let them get comfortable with you like that. because once they do, they’ll start using you for their own benefit. and you won’t get anything out of it. 

don’t let that happen.