dealing with a loss is hard as it is. having people around you tell you to get over it and stop wasting your time on the past is even harder. imagine what that’s like. after a loss people don’t understand that it’s not easy to just ‘forget them’ and erase their memories within days, months, or years even. it takes time. and even then, those memories will not be erased but… ↓

it’s nice to get away from the world once in a while but you need to be aware of what’s going on around you and not be completely isolated. by being away, you’re probably facing some difficulties that you are trying to overcome. but take a minute to consider loved ones and their situations at the moment. you can’t always be focused on yourself while others who truly care about… ↓

why do i keep saying things will get better? what if it doesn’t get any better? what if things stay the same? would i need to appreciate the things i have for the moment and realize that things will never change? how would that feel? would i enjoy it? would i be more grateful? or would that only be worse? ↓

sometime the person you really want to be with can’t be with you it can be almost impossible to be with them  don’t feel like you’re worthless or you did something wrong stop blaming yourself. there’s some things that just aren’t meant to be.  and if it was meant to be, it would never pass you.  you deserve to be with someone who loves you back too often, the same… ↓

national poetry month – start gone in the wind like the rest of the people I’ve met.  your personality has changed. you don’t care anymore and you’re not the same person I met on the first day. you’re different. what got into you? why are you so insensitive and have no feelings whatsoever?  who changed you? who put you down so low that you don’t want to feel for anyone… ↓